• BarneyPiccolo@lemmy.today
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    So what about a guy with a sock stuffed in his pants? If a woman has sex with that guy, and his dick isn’t as big as he advertised, is that sexual assault?

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      Maybe it’s cultural, but “woman” can sound “old” to some people, and “girl” can sound “young”.

      Some guys think its respectful to sidestep the whole issue and use an age neutral term, unaware of how it sounds.

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          from my personal experience

          Yes, exactly.

          I’m telling you as a matter of fact that I know people who felt awkward saying “woman” because of the age factor.

          These guys aren’t incels by any means, they’re just awkward and naive.

          For what it’s worth I did tell them that “female” is not a good look, and they should use “women” instead.

          The point is not every guy who says “female” is an incel.

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    Damn I hate it when I get seduced by women wearing makeup, it’s the worst thing ever, I hope it doesn’t happen this weekend.

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      Why else, throughout history, have women been blamed just for being attractive?

      “No, I raped you! It’s your fault for being sexy!”

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    For the uninformed: this is a direct response to a post saying that obtaining sex by deception is sexual assault. Which, y’know, it is.

    No, makeup doesnt fucking count you unmitigated arsehole.

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      My husband just said, “If you think the one on the right is not an attractive woman, maybe you’re gay. Like, you should just be looking for dudes.”

      Maybe she’s not your exact type, but surely we can all agree that she very much fits the bill for what a large majority of people would traditionally consider pretty.

      I am personally not a fan of the highly-made-up trend, so I do think that she’s more attractive without the makeup. But I also understand why people like wearing makeup, and it’s her right to do it or not depending on her mood. I think anyone who can’t tell that she’s wearing makeup in the photo on the left is (a) lying or (b) a child.

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      Part of it is she’s authentically smiling and joyful without the makeup instead of doing that forced neutral “Paris Hilton” kind of look with the make-up.

      Turns out when people are happy and in a good mood they’re more attractive. Who knew?

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        It’s almost liberating to realize that beauty is not the same as attractiveness.

        Someone can look below average, but have a shining, friendly personality that makes them attractive as hell!

        No matter the gender, either- I’m not a particularly handsome man, but I can tell you that sparking joy works.

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      You do realise you’re not winning ‘good man’ points by saying stuff like this, right? You’re literally just adding to the misogyny here by further objectifying women.

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        Very few people in this thread are capable of understanding that offering judgment on this woman’s appearance is still objectifying her.

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          I am getting so tired of the internet lately. I appreciate seeing you around but idk how you still have the will to talk to any of these people, the toxicity of these men is starting to feel like I’m stewing in poison.

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            Speaking up when I see casual sexism like this helps heal the years of my life when I was taught to be quiet and allow “boys to be boys”.

            It’s really understandable how people get sick of seeing this type of toxicity. I hope your day has more good, funny, quirky, weird, and fun things pop up instead of gestures at this thread

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      Left looks like generic vapid bimbo, like what you would get if you typed ‘vapid bimbo’ in gen AI.

      Right looks like a person.

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    Another example of “Everyone is twelve now.”

    Yeah kiddo, I know you’re surprised women look different when we put on makeup. You’re twelve!

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      I greatly prefer her WITHOUT the make-up. I would talk to the girl on the right, I wouldn’t bother with the one on the left.

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    Conservatives will show you two pictures of a conventionally attractive person looking conventionally attractive, and then caption it some bs like “the age of men has fallen.”

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    How can this be anything other than rage bait when the woman on the right is so pretty and the language is so gross and offensive?

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      Sadly, people do believe this. These are the same assholes that go off on women for wearing bras and then expecting all tits to be naturally porn-star perky.

      Their real goal, under the ragebait, is to create and then normalize an ‘ideal woman’ template that’s nigh-unattainable and then punish every woman who doesn’t fit the mold. A demand, if you will, that every woman perform and dress up just for their eyes, with a side effect of disenfranchising and controlling women as the cherry on top.

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      Then add in the fact that if whoever wrote this saw any woman out in public without makeup he would then complain about that.

      These people have nothing except their persecution complex.